What an admirable attitude. It is so easy to focus simply upon yourself and keep that focus on you, ignoring the needs and circumstances of those around you. Sometimes we forget that to get where we are pursuing or arrived was not a solo effort. We have all had people who have made various sacrifices for us to get where we are.
Understanding who you are and developing yourself to be the best you can become should be our goals. Know who you are, how you are put together. But have a humble, realistic view of yourself as we are challenged in Romans 12:3 - “Because of the privilege and authority God has given me, I give each of you this warning: Don’t think you are better than you really are. Be honest in your evaluation of yourselves, measuring yourselves by the faith God has given us.”