We are blessed in that we have real love described for us in the Scriptures. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8a tells us that “charity”…
• ...suffers long. It is forbearing. It abides the failures, weakness, and transgressions of others.
• ...is kind. It is benevolent and useful.
• ...envies not. It is not jealous of others, but is happy with them in their accomplishments.
• ...vaunts not itself. Instead of being boastful and arrogant, it is meek and gentle.
• ...is not puffed up. Instead of being haughty or prideful, it is humble.
• ...Does not behave itself unseemly. It is not unbecoming, unflattering, inappropriate ...